Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Jesus, Don't Let Me Die Before I Have Sex

A few days ago I noticed I had a new follower on Twitter: @MattBarber (givemesexjesus). Yeah, that's right, GIVE ME SEX JESUS. Initially, I thought some weird porn dude with an unholy love for Christ had spam-followed me. But it turns out, while Matt is definitely looking to make a movie, it's definitely not porn.

From the website:
Jesus, Don’t Let Me Die Before I’ve Had Sex will be a feature-length documentary examining the sexual teachings of the Evangelical Church and exploring the undercurrent of idealism that leaves many people feeling frustrated and confused. Told in an honest and fair fashion, the movie will paint a picture of what is taught explicitly and implicitly by showing how churchgoers react to those teachings through anecdotes of first kisses, chastity rallies and secret obsessions. Along side these stories will be interviews of pastors reflecting on their own teachings, as well historians and sociologists diagramming the evolution of sexual teaching in the Church. Intercut throughout will be poignant stop-motion animation bringing to life the pain, joy, triumph and sorrow of our interviewees....

What are people saying about this project?

"…the subject matter seems to be handled with compassion and nuance in a time where most discussions of sex and morality are incredibly polarized and lack both candor and humanity.” (Meaghan, of Kickstarter)

"This is the movie I wish I had watched when I was in my early teens. It's the film I wish existed when I talked to my friends struggling with the issue in high school and college. And it's the film I hope will effect generations of Christians in future decades.” (Patrick, featured in the film)

"I have struggled with shame and insecurity in my sexuality, and my secret longings to seduce and to be wanted. That’s not what a good Christian girl is supposed to think about…” (Rachel, via The American Jesus blog)

“I initially thought I was going to wait until marriage… but after [having sex] in my early 20's I found myself having to come to terms with how I feel about myself, if this means I should continue to wait and whether I ‘ruined everything’ so to speak.” (Mr. M, via email)

 “Abstaining was tough during my teens, but it became torture throughout my twenties.  Now that I'm in my thirties and most of my ‘True Love Waits’ peers are celebrating ten or more years of sex and marriage… I'm left feeling like I was entirely ripped off.” (Kristine, via email)

"I spent hours and hours in prayer, crying, asking God to take that cup from me. I promised God all sorts of things if he’d help me stay pure. I’ve talked with lots of other guys, and frankly it’s difficult to find men who [haven’t] struggled with sex.” (XUY, via The American Jesus blog)

I have to say this looks pretty interesting... maybe it's because I grew up going to Christian school and yes, I had to read Joshua Harris' now-classic "I Kissed Dating Goodbye", I can relate to what some of the people in the clips are saying.

What do you think? Would you donate? Would you watch?


Alan said...

very interesting. I remember the whole kissed dating goodbye era, however I didnt play into that movement. It seemed easier for girls to do it, but for young guys with hormones going crazy it was quite near impossible. I would definitely watch the documentary.

Alisha De Freitas said...

Yeah, I'd watch it, too. You know, while I liked the idea-somewhat-of kissing dating goodbye, at least in the way so many others were doing it, I knew it wasn't for me. I read that book while I was dating my first boyfriend. I wasn't about to dump him to be single, lol.

No regrets about that decision, either. He was a great kid and is a good man now. :-)

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